As someone who was raised in a household where I didn’t have to do anything and I wasn’t taught how to do anything I think I’m uniquely qualified to say no, you did nothing wrong. I’m not the Preschool teacher groovy fourth grade vibes face retro teachers back to school classic shirt But I will love this best cook, I’ll be the first to admit, but I know how to follow a recipe. This is absolutely weaponized incompetents i get it! My boyfriend and i live together and hey I Love him very much. I have some mental disabilities, being a severe case of O.C.D- though now mild, anxiety, and A.D.H.D, i told him all of this literally the day i met him. So i dont work. He works and all i ever ask i that he meet me half way with cleaning. being a virgo and having ocd youd think id be a neat freak but im not. im messy though im not dirty. so when i see the table in the morning covered with soy sauce from the previous night or all his laundry unfolded in the laundry basket, i get upset and very stressed out. though i feel like i should clean if hes at work, but it is not like he wants me to clean – he can live in chaos he just doesnt clean up, so i build resentment. i recently said just pick up after yourself , if something is mine ill clean it up. When you make a dish wash it right after . he even said this, and so i leave his stuff in the sink and will do all my dishes, but rarley does it work out and i end up with a sink full of gross dishes and doing them. he acts like i just sit at home doing nothing. My mom had died in november and we were bestfriends so that loss was/is extreamly painful. I was left the apartment and i am used to it being clean bc no matter how sick my mom was shed never let it get this bad. if only i could see her point of veiw so i could have helped her out more around the house. Now i know and i feel so badly that i didnt help as much as i could have.
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when im home im in my art room painting or writing and taking my online classes. and i keep my art room as clean as i can its a place i can have some peace. maybe youll think im being dumb and i shouldnt expect him to clean after himself, i should just do it bc he works. i get that i do. i just get so overly stressed that makes me think about the Preschool teacher groovy fourth grade vibes face retro teachers back to school classic shirt But I will love this years i suffered from ocd being stressed and unable to sleep and it scares me because i dont want to go to that place in my head and get stuck. either way , if im wrong or right i do feel the annoyance that he wont help , like your bf wouldnt just TRY to help by cooking or even going to get tea and bringing it to u in bed. He still hasn’t even finished cooking it, saying he can’t turn the oven on. Like, it’s literally just a dial and an on switch?