i’m surprised you had that much patience for him up until now; also calling you a bitch….on your birthday no less. yikes. He (and it sounds like your ex was doing the Preschool teacher fourth grade vibes 4th grade team retro 1st day of school classic shirt But I will love this same) used to claim he couldn’t do anything (hoover, wash up, cook, wash down the bath after filling it with soap slime and hair, pick up his pants or socks) despite having lived alone before, but he’d had a cleaner come round until I moved in. It’s a dick move (on his part), you didn’t shame him and you didn’t set him up for a fail. You have him every opportunity, tried to help and did a lot more than I would have done. Thank you so much, I’ve been feeling like shit reading some of these comments I should probably stop. It’s interesting that the majority of the non supportive ones are from men when I posted in a sub centered about women discussing things from a woman’s perspective. I had to turn my DMs off as its full of abuse and dick pics.
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I can’t cook to save my life. I try to help my wife in the Preschool teacher fourth grade vibes 4th grade team retro 1st day of school classic shirt But I will love this kitchen where I can, and I am practicing to get better. My food is now edible, but not good lol. However, because of my lack of kitchen skills (they’re improving!), when my wife makes dinner, I do all of the cleaning. Household chores are split and I do my fair share. I also help with prepping dinner, cutting vegetables, mixing sauces, etc. A relationship is a balance. Areas where I am lacking, I try to make up for it in other areas. It sounds like his lack of cooking ability was the last straw in a series of selfish behaviors. He sounded more like another child you had to take care of, and you were not wrong at all to move on! How has he not died from starvation so far? It’s weaponized incompetence and you deserve better. Anyone stating otherwise is a tool bag.